纽约月嫂避雷指南！新手爸妈必看 A guide to avoiding pitfalls with New York confinement nannies! A must-read for new

📅 面试时，她表现得非常专业，甚至邀请我们去她家里试吃月子餐，让我们觉得非常靠谱，于是我们就决定雇她。然而，这是我最后悔的决定之一。

🏠 她来家当天，先是要求我们拆掉房间里的摄像头，然后告诉我们如果安装她就没法做。我们出于信任，答应了她的要求。现在想想，这真是一个大错误。我的性格并不是那种容易妥协的人，但当时刚做完手术，整个人都很虚弱，加上有了宝宝的慌乱，只是害怕她走了，不知道怎么办。

👩‍👧‍👦 As new parents, we didn't have much experience, especially without our parents around. Dealing with an incompetent confinement nanny was incredibly frustrating. Today, I'd like to share a story about a confinement nanny I met in New York, and it truly left me terrified!

📅 During the interview, she was incredibly professional and even invited us to her home to sample confinement meals. We felt incredibly confident, so we decided to hire her. However, this was one of the decisions I regret most.

🏠 On the day she arrived, she first demanded we remove the security cameras from the room, then told us she couldn't do it if we installed them. Out of trust, we agreed. Looking back, it was a huge mistake. I'm not one to compromise easily, but I was so weak after surgery, and with the added stress of having a baby, I was terrified she'd be gone and not know what to do.

🛌 整个月子期间，她从来不抱我女儿，导致她3个月还有惊跳反射，现在还很缺乏安全感！她也从来不给我女儿洗澡，整个月子里都是用水擦，说容易洗澡感染得败血症，她不敢洗！她每天晚上都要打非常久的电话，说话声音奇大无比，晚上基本3点才关灯，导致我女儿到现在睡眠都不是太好。

🍽️ 她非常爱做饭拍视频发宣传，但她真的非常脏。26天里，她把我一口新锅用到报废。我家从一只蟑螂没有，到开始出现蟑螂，后面花了好多精力时间钱才解决！最可气的是，宝宝吐奶很正常，但她喂养方式有问题，导致我女儿频繁吐奶。她从来不说也不清理干净。她走了之后保洁阿姨才偷偷告诉我，后来新阿姨上岗，拆洗床垫，才发现床垫反面有大片大片的奶渍。这个奇葩，把吐脏了的床垫翻过来睡。

🍼 她用不惯我买的hegen奶瓶，美名其曰给我省钱。后来我才发现，因为那个便宜的洗奶嘴就行，我女儿的奶瓶经常有之前的奶渍。最奇葩的是，她每天都要和我吹牛逼，告诉我她是天津大户人家的小姐，家里有阿姨有厨子。为了要更多的消小费，她不惜故意让宝宝频繁吐奶。说话声音巨大无比，让宝宝无法安睡。

💣 纽约的宝妈们，请避雷！她叫王虹，天津人。

🛌 During the entire confinement period, she never held my daughter, causing her to still have a startle reflex at three months old and still feel insecure! She also never bathed my daughter. She used only water throughout the entire confinement period, saying it could easily lead to septicemia and she was afraid to bathe! She would make extremely long phone calls every night, talking incredibly loudly and rarely turning off the lights until 3 a.m., causing my daughter to still sleep poorly.

🍽️ She loved cooking and filming videos for promotional purposes, but she was incredibly messy. In 26 days, she wore out my new pot. My house went from having no cockroaches to having them, and it took a lot of effort, time, and money to fix it! The most infuriating thing is that spitting up is normal for babies, but her feeding habits were problematic, causing my daughter to spit up frequently. She never told me about it or cleaned it up. After she left, the cleaning lady secretly told me about it. Later, when the new housekeeper took over and cleaned the mattress, she discovered large milk stains on the back. This is bizarre! She even turned over the vomited-on mattress to sleep on it.

🍼 She couldn't get used to the Hegen bottles I bought, claiming it was to save me money. Later, I discovered that because of the cheap nipple cleaner, my daughter's bottles were constantly stained with old milk. The most bizarre thing was that she'd brag to me every day, telling me she was from a wealthy family in Tianjin, with a maid and a cook. To get more tips, she even deliberately made the baby spit up frequently. She spoke so loudly that the baby couldn't sleep.

💣 New York moms, beware! Her name is Wang Hong, and she's from Tianjin.